So my original plan for today was to see how much South African vocab I could introduce in five minutes of writing, but then my seven-year-old boy who happens to steal my heart all over again every single day jumped into the challenge with great enthusiasm and has written for five minutes on the past three prompts: GO, KNOW and today’s word, SAY.

He even asked if I would post his writing on my blog.  🙂  Coming from a kid who refused my invitations to join in with Five Minute Friday during the past school year and the kid who is very self conscious about his writing, I simply couldn’t resist his nascent confidence.

I’ll translate below, in case some of you lack creativity in your spelling (or the ability to decipher a seven-year-old’s script).

Here’s what he wrote:


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I like to go to restaurants.  I like to play at the playground.  I think that the playground slides go so fast.  I also like to go on a plane.  Planes go crazy fast.


I like to know what food’s ingredients are.  I know a lot of math.  I know that tomato sauce is made with tomatoes.  I know what my favorite fruit is.  It is watermelon. I also know that I like plums and oranges and peaches.


I speak a lot.  I like to say a memory verse.  I like to say math problems.  I like to say my spelling words.  I like to say my favorite animal.  It is a lion.  I like to see birds flying in the sky.  I like to see animals.  I like supper and breakfast and lunch and I like my mom’s food.


Now tell me that’s not the most adorable thing you’ve seen on this blog.  🙂

But just so I’m not accused of cheating in my own challenge, I’ll throw in my own five minutes on “say,” for what it’s worth — even though we all know I can’t top what’s already been said.  🙂


Here we go …


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Learning the differences between American and South African vocab were some of my favorite parts of cross-cultural living.

I still remember one flight on a South African Airways, where my sandwich was delivered to me in a cardboard box that had South African lingo explained on each side.  My box had the word “tekkies,” which are tennis shoes or sneakers.

There is a huge overlap with British vocab, such as bonnet and boot instead of a hood or trunk of a car.  Strollers are prams, diapers are nappies, pacifiers are dummies.  Grocery carts are trolleys, and ketchup is tomato sauce.

The most confusing for me is that jelly is jam there, and Jell-O is jelly.  Eggplants are brinjals and zucchini is baby marrow.

Pick-up trucks are bakkies and VW minibuses are kombis.

And those are all things that my brain had an American equivalent for … nevermind the biltong, vetkoek, koeksisters, and boerewors.

Oh, and the word “shame” is used so perfectly but inexplicably unless you’re there .. almost like, “agh, sorry, man,” or “that’s too bad,” … but my explanation doesn’t suffice.

My all-time favorite?  To honk the horn of your car is to toot the hooter.


This is Day 8 of 31 Days of Life in South Africa.  Each post has been written in just five minutes. 

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I was recently asked to share some thoughts with a college group about what it’s like to live in a cross-cultural setting. So far I’ve had the privilege of visiting Mexico, Honduras, India and Lesotho before spending a decade living in Cape Town, South Africa.


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Perhaps I should preface this by saying that cross-cultural living is not for everyone. There are those who might thrive in a foreign setting but never get the chance to travel. Others might live in foreign contexts for work or as a result of other, external circumstances, but struggle the whole time. Nevertheless, even if you only have the opportunity to visit another culture without actually settling there, I would highly recommend it.

I was blessed to have had a wonderful experience, but it did not come without its challenges. Based on personal experience, here are some pros and cons to cross-cultural living.



Pro: It offers a richness to one’s life that cannot be manufactured. Travel books are great, but one can’t learn richness from a book. Movies can give a glimpse, but will never do justice to the smells, the tastes, the smiles, the accents, the people, the memories. In a word, it’s exhilarating. The experience gained can’t be replicated any other way.



Con: It can be hard, sometimes shocking, to re-enter one’s ‘home’ culture after seeing the world through new lenses. It’s even possible to develop a bitterness toward materialism and the surplus of choices. One can also experience an air of superiority toward those who don’t know any differently.




Pro: It will increase your dependency on the Lord like you won’t believe. You’ll need His help like you never knew you could need it before.


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Con: It will make you feel like you’re two years old again when you realize you can’t do anything by yourself. By that I mean that you won’t know which exit to take off the freeway, or how to find the freeway in the first place, or even which side of the road to drive on, or which side of the car to get into, for that matter … You won’t know the difference between a grocery store and a hardware store, or what to buy at the store or where to find it, or how much it will cost in your home currency.




Con: It is exhausting. It took me five full years living overseas before I wasn’t constantly doing mental gymnastics every moment of every day. Trying to figure out currency conversions, unit conversions for things like temperature (for anything from the weather outside, to the setting on the oven to bake brownies, to the thermometer for my kid’s fever), cultural nuances, directions and locations, foreign brands. Add an unfamiliar language to the mix and the difficulty level of the gymnastics is multiplied a hundredfold.



Pro: It is stimulating. Mental gymnastics can be a good thing. It will expand your horizon and broaden your worldview. It will break you out of your mold of thinking things can only be done one way. Before I lived overseas, I never knew it was possible to make brownies without a box. Now my daughter has been raised to make brownies from scratch, moves to America, and finds boxed mixes to be the definition of boring.




Con: You will miss out on a lot from your ‘home’ culture. I cried like a baby when my firstborn had her first birthday overseas and nobody from my extended family was there to celebrate. I literally broke down in a parking lot and was convinced it wasn’t worth it, this whole ‘living far away’ business. Even after ten years, the ‘missing family and friends’ part never really got any easier.


Pro: Not always, but often, the Lord will provide new and deep relationships right where you are. These will obviously not replace the friendships you left behind, nor are they intended to, but they can help cushion the ache a little and add comfort while in a foreign place.




Pro: It will increase your desire and excitement for heaven. You’ll get a teeny tiny taste of what it will be like when “the great multitude … from every nation, tribe, people and language” will one day gather “before the throne and in front of the Lamb” (Revelation 7:9).



Con: Well, there just isn’t a corresponding con to this one. To have every nation represented in eternity will be beyond amazing.




I absolutely loved the decade I spent living in a foreign context. I offer the ‘cons’ here only as a pinch of reality to temper the starry-eyed, honeymoon mentality that can sneak into the suitcase when traveling overseas.


And ultimately, even where there are challenges and frustrations, we can “rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope” (Romans 5:3-4).


Having said that, I sincerely hope that the picture painted here is one in which the scales are heavily weighted in favor of the ‘pros.’


Cross-cultural living is hard, but so worth it.


What about you?  Have you experienced any of these pros or cons?  What would you add to the list?