31 Days - 2014 logoHello!  Welcome, and thanks for stopping by!  This is Day 16 of 31 Days of Life in South Africa — a series in which every post has been written as a free-write in five minutes flat. 

Yesterday I shared my daughter’s birth story.  The rest of the posts in this series can be found here.

 

Once my kids were born, I had to figure out how to raise them in what was still a country mostly foreign to me.

I didn’t mind that I got to have ultrasounds at every monthly appointment — a perk that some of my American friends envied.  I also didn’t mind getting to spend three nights in the hospital after my Caesareans instead of one or two.

 

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What I had to get used to was calling diapers nappies and calling the stroller a pram.  How the pacifier was a dummy, and there was no Desitin or liquid Tylenol.  My mom and I would laugh about the ‘gripe water’ — a clear concoction we hadn’t heard of before, designed to help relieve babies of discomfort due to ‘wind.’

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What surprised me even more was how much I had to adjust to once we went to the States for a visit with our 28-month-old and 6-month-old.  I stood in the children’s medicine aisle and had no idea what to buy for my kid’s fever.  If only I were back in Cape Town, I would just grab the liquid Panado and be out of there.

But my mind adjusted and learned how to mother these cross-cultural children across cultures.

And in spite of the moments of confusion and a tongue that at times wouldn’t cooperate, I count it as a gift.

 

4 thoughts on “parenting across cultures {day 16 :: adjust}

  1. I loved reading this post of yours. I’m parenting in a culture different to my own, as a Single Mum (don’t ask) and I rarely see people talk about these kinds of issues. [You’ve actually given me an idea, and I think I’ll do a blog post of my own about this]….popped over to see if you’d posted the FMF word and have left with a hop in my step…thank you!!

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